Oh hell no.
The 'Bride "In Charge" Wearing Pants and Groom "Not In Charge" Without Cake Topper' is so not okay:
And then these ones I have no problem with, except that instead of calling it what it is, it's the "Fashionable Bride And Groom Mix & Match Cake Toppers."
I guess "mix and match" is a cute euphemism for gay marriage.
These and many more wedding accessories -- some stupid, some perfectly adorable -- can be found at Wedding Star.